Saturday, July 23, 2011

6 week re-scan

Matt had his 6 week follow up re-scan appointment yesterday.  It went wonderful!!!  When Kriss saw Matt she said he looked so good.  She said when she first saw him at his first appointment the thought that ran through her head was wow this is one sick Man.  She asked us how we had been doing, and then got right to business.  Matt put his hand on the hand pad and it started scanning.  Matt is doing so great, he is getting healthier!  He still has some issues, but we will work through them.
Matt is able to stop taking the chlorophyll, peppermint, and kidney activator.  He still has to take the evening primrose capsule once a day.  He still needs to take the Catnip and fennel 3 times a day 10 drops each time.  They added 1 new supplement and that is stress relief capsule 2 a day.  Sleep issues came up on the scan.  Matt has an inner alarm clock and he just wakes up automatically after 6 hrs.  Not enough sleep.  He, and we all need 8 hrs. of sleep.  The valerian root capsules make him drowsy.  They are a timed release brand, so you are supposed to get your 8 hrs.  Since it hasn't been working for Matt, Kris took him off of those as well.  It's hard to get enough sleep anyways when you work the graveyard shift.  I try to keep the kids busy, and quiet so he can sleep.  It's just hard all around because it's light outside, and people are out and about working.  It's just noisy!  We do have a dark blanket hanging over our window, but it still doesn't keep all of the light out.  We will work something out on that issue!
Some other issues besides stress and sleep, were emotional issues as well.  So he needs to go through some more emotional release, and Evox as well.

EVOX: Re-patterning/Healing
Are you ready to be free of emotional pain?
EVOX, a multi-sensory (ie: light, sound, GVSR) communication system which quickly, gently and effectively re-patterns the mind-body.
Emotional issues are addressed easily in a stress-free environment which allows you to release negative patterns (i.e., depression, anger, sadness, grief, fears, phobias). EVOX is a computer-based system that maps the subtle qualities of the human voice, and provides the significant frequencies for re-patterning.
These frequencies are then presented to the body to facilitate the subconscious adjustment. This process unburdens the mind body through a remapping process allowing the patient to quickly experience emotional healing.
How it works
EVOX is designed to listen to the subtle qualities of spoken voice and display them into what is called a voice map. Significant frequencies are selected and then presented to the body together with light and sound. This multi-sensory communication facilitates the subconscious adjustment that is often described as ?unburdening?. The process is called voice remapping. This process is particularly helpful if emotional healing is indicated.
The BioChemistry of Sound
By combining quantum physics, biology, and information theory ZYTO technology provides an interface between living things and computers allowing them to talk to each other.
Most of your daily activity is managed by an exchange of information that happens at a level below conscious awareness. Every second there are an estimated 100 million impulses of information processed by your body that you are not aware of. The mechanism that filters this information is a part of your brain called the reticular activating system and even though you aren?t aware of it, it is this information that keeps your body organized and healthy.
Information is the communication of knowledge and each cell of your body is built for communication. The outer cell wall is comprised of two layers of fat, called a bi-lipid layer. The lipid molecules are organized in a crystalline pattern that facilitates communication. You may be familiar with crystals and their use. Using very simple components, and no outside energy source, a crystal radio allows you to capture the waves from a radio station and convert them into audio energy. The crystal like structure of each of the 70 trillion cells that make up your body allows you to receive information in a similar way. As the cells compress and expand their structure generates the energy needed to pass information along, allowing your entire body to function in a coordinated and healthy way.
As your cells communicate, EVOX technology makes it possible to eavesdrop and listen to the conversation. This is accomplished by monitoring the changes in galvanic skin response, or GSR, as well as subtle changes in spoken voice. As we listen we apply proprietary formulas and extract meaning from what your body is saying; but that?s only half the equation, the other half is talking. Talking in this sense is communicating information to your body that will stimulate a response. To talk to your body EVOX technology converts computer data to signatures or frequencies that stimulate cellular response. We call these signatures virtual stressors or queries. The process of talking with the body can be seen as a stimulus-response exercise.
In other words, EVOX technology outputs a query (a virtual stressor) and the body responds.
Very interesting!!!
Acupuncture/acupressure came up on the scan.  Matt has done acupuncture before.  He did it when we first moved into our house over 3 years ago.  I didn't realize that he had done it.  I guess life was stressful.  He can go to the VA hospital and get it done for free.  Anything dealing with his back is covered and free! Matt said it felt great while the needles were in, but when they took the needles out, he felt crappy again.  Maybe now that he has had some emotional release, and keep having emotional release this acupuncture/acupressure will be able to help relieve his back pain issues.
Oh and he has to keep taking the Digestzen as needed.  He has been taking it once a day 4 drops.  He is now down to 3 drops.  Didn't say anything about the spiritual side of things.  We must be doing good in that area!  Sweet!  We will continue to go to church, and to the temple.  Matt was able to be an escort to one of his good friend/and old co-worker.  Him and his wife took out there endowments, and were sealed to each other, along with their daughter.  What an awesome experience for Matt to be able to be there for that!
Onto Matt's diet.  It has been a long 6 weeks that is for sure!  Matt started out with 100% raw diet.  He was on that for about 10 days.   Then they moved him to 75% raw diet.  He has been on that for the rest of the time.  We were hoping that when he was scanned that he would be good to start eating everything again.  Well Kriss muscle tested and she put Matt on a 60% raw diet.  She said that really this is where he should stay long term.  The good news is Matt is able to have bread again and red meat!
He can only have certain types of bread for now.  He can have Ezekiel bread, and Spelt bread.  He can have red meat once a week, Hooray!!!  He can have fresh motzerella cheese, cottage cheese, and Greek yogurt.  He can't have potatoes yet, or milk.  I'm not sure about pasta we forgot to ask on that one.  It was funny Matt asked about snickers bars, and Kriss just laughed and said oh i'm not even going to muscle test you on that one, NO! LOL  He can have as much fruits and veggies as he would like.  I wish that he would want them more, they are so good for you.  I feel like I'm always nagging him to get his veggies.  I guess thank goodness for wives or people that really want you to succeed and help you because nothing would ever get done if you were fighting it.  I hope that makes sense!  I really just want Matt to be healthy.  I want him to have the desire to be healthy.
We left the appointment on a high.  We went to my sister's and talked about the appointment.  It was a good visit!  Then we headed home.  On the way we decided to stop at a good earth food store.  Holy cow they are so expensive!  Eating good is expensive.  The bread was over $5.  It will be nice to be able to incorporate more into meals again.  It's been hard knowing what to cook.  Thank goodness for our pampered chef food chopper.  We have had a lot of stir-fry vegetables.  Eggs, mixed with spinach, and broccoli.  I even put in a mix of kidney beans, black beans, and pinto beans.  It really wasn't bad!  We've had lot's of green smoothies, and fruit salads, and oatmeal.  I haven't really made a full meal since May.  It will be nice to start making full meals again.  
We have loved bountiful baskets!  We were only ordering 1 basket here or there for awhile.  Then when Matt went on this diet I started ordering 2 baskets every Monday.  We eat every last bit of it.  It is so yummy and delicious, and so so so good for you!  Being healthy is important!  Take care of yourself, and make good healthy conscious decisions, you won't regret it!  I will keep you updated with Matt's health.  He has a re-scan in 6 weeks.  Thanks for your thoughts, and reading, and being in our lives!  

Tuesday, July 5, 2011

The (Expensive but better) Herbal way of life

We decided to go the herbal route to try and help Matt to start feeling great again.  My Sister Kate is really into the herbal remedies and went and got a LSA Pro HHC Scan done on her.  I can see that it has helped her tremendously.  She has come a long ways since before she had the scan done.  My little Brother Quinn got it done a couple of months ago.  I saw him last week, and he looked like he was doing much better.  Kate recommended that we do this scan.  I trust my Sister's judgment, so we went and Matt got the scan done with Kris Ross who works at Herbs for Health in Pleasant Grove.
What is a LSA Pro HHC Scan? A LSA Pro HHC Scan tests the body for stress or balance reactions to tens of thousands of items. Based on these physiological reactions, a health practitioner obtains invaluable information about what may be adversely affecting a client’s health and what product or course of action could improve it.   Exclusive to Herbs for Health of Pleasant Grove – a bio survey process.  Using pre-programmed collections and library references organized into defined groups, quick assessments are created for each individual.  Diet, exercise, lifestyle changes, nutritional support and so on are all considerations sorted by biological preference unique to each individual to personalize every program.






Here are a couple of links that explain what it is and how it works.  They are a couple of minutes long each.  It's really interesting!


Matt went in feeling pretty crappy on June 11th.  He got his scan done and it was just amazing how it all works.  We found out that he was having some problems with his heart, kidneys, gallbladder even though it's not there anymore, bacteria issues, stress, emotional issues, sleep issues, bowel problems.  Just a lot of crap going on in his body.  There was more, but we are only focusing on about 5 of the major problems right now. 
Matt's program to get him balanced goes like this:

Supplements: Catnip & Fennel, Evening Primerose, Chlorophyll, Trigger Immune, Kidney Activator, Velerian Root, and Peppermint.

He takes the Catnip and Fennel with breakfast, Lunch, and Dinner, 10 drops each time.  He takes 2 Evening Primerose capsules at breakfast.  Drinks 2 oz. of Chlorophyll a day.  Takes 1 capsule of Trigger Immune at Breakfast, and Dinner.  Takes 2 Kidney Activator capsules at Breakfast.  Takes 2 Valerian Root capsules right before bed.  Takes 6 drops of peppermint in a empty gel capsule at Breakfast, lunch, and Dinner.  

Catnip and Fennel liquid:
Is a combination of two time-honored botanicals that primarily support the digestive and nervous systems.
Chlorophyll Benefits:
• Helps promote the natural blood-cleansing functions of the body. 
• Promotes strong immune response.
• Strengthens cells. 

• Deodorizes the body, including the bowel.
Evening Primrose Oil Benefits:
• Provides the body with important fatty acids.
• Helps promote energy.
• May help the body maintain proper temperature.
• Strengthens body tissues.
• Supports the glandular and circulatory systems. 
Kidney Activator Benefits:
•Promotes kidney function.
•May help clear retained water.
•Supports the urinary tract.
•May support joint health.
Trigger Immune Benefits:
•Helps guard against nutrient depletion.
•Fortifies the circulatory system.

•Nutritionally enhances the body's ability to respond to weakening forces.
 Valerian Root:
Valerian Root comes from the Latin valere, which means “to be in good health.” Records of valerian’s use go back more than 1,000 years. Modern herbalists use the root primarily to support special needs of the central nervous system. Valerian root aids in relaxing the body and providing gentle sleep support. 
PEPPERMINT:
PATTERNS OF IMBALANCE: Dull or sluggish, especially mental lethargy; under-active metabolism which depletes mental forces

POSITIVE QUALITIES: Mindful and wakeful clarity, warm metabolism balanced with cool head forces

Definition: Peppermint imparts alert clarity and mental vibrancy. Those who need this remedy have a soul struggle between the lower and upper parts of their being, especially between the metabolic/digestive forces and the thinking/creative forces. In these cases, the life or metabolic forces overwhelm the consciousness with too much warmth, making the mental capacity dull and lethargic. Peppermint is at once cooling and warming. It cools down the lower organs, especially the liver, so that the consciousness can be freed for higher activity. It also stimulates the thinking forces so that they have a “digestive capacity” of a higher nature, making the thinking more lively, vital, and penetrating. Many people who need Peppermint have profound issues around eating and consciousness. They may crave the stimulation of food, only to find themselves sluggish and mentally incapacitated afterwards. It is as though two parts of the Self are warring for attention. Peppermint brings great healing and balancing energy, freeing the mind for higher thought, and helping the digestive, life forces work in their proper sphere. 


Other parts of the program include going through emotional release, Simplify and reduce stress, No Soda, 100 % raw diet fruits and veggies only for 5 days, drink 1 gal of water each day, and GO TO A SACRED PLACE TO COMMUNE WITH GOD so in our case go to the Temple/Church more often.  Also to go off any pain medicine if he was able.  It just contributes to all of the problems going on.


Have you heard of Muscle testing/Kinesiology?  It's pretty interesting and I would love to learn more about it and how to do it and not question myself.  Here is a description on muscle testing:

Kinesiology: The Tool for Testing
Kinesiology is another word for muscle testing. Kinesiology is simple. Anybody can do it because it uses your electrical system and your muscles. If you are alive, you have these two things. I know that sounds smart-mouthed of me, but I’ve learned that sometimes people refuse to believe that anything can be so simple. So they create a mental block—only "sensitive types" can do this, or only women can do it. It’s just not true. Kinesiology happens to be one of those simple things in life just waiting around to be learned and used by everyone.
Even small children can learn to do kinesiology in about five minutes. It is mainly because it never occurred to them that they couldn’t do it. If I tell them they have an electrical system, they don’t argue with me about it; they just get on with the business of learning how to do simple testing. Actually, I do mean to intimidate you. Your first big hurdle will be whether or not you believe you have a viable electrical system that is capable of being tested. Here’s a good test. Place a hand mirror under your nose. If you see breath marks, you have a strong electrical system. (If you don’t see breath marks, call your local emergency rescue squad—you’re in trouble.) Now you can get on with learning how to use kinesiology!
If you’ve ever been to a chiropractor or holistic physician experienced in muscle testing, you’ve experienced kinesiology. The doctor tells you to stick out your arm and resist his pressure. It feels like he is trying to push your arm down after he has told you not to let him do it. Everything is going fine, and then all of a sudden he presses and your arm falls down like a floppy fish no matter how hard you try to keep it up. That is using kinesiology.
Simply stated, the body has within it and surrounding it an electrical network or grid. If anything impacts your electrical system that does not maintain or enhance your health and your body’s balance, your muscles, when having physical pressure applied, are unable to hold their strength. (Muscle power is directly linked to the balance of the electrical system.) In other words, if pressure is applied to an individual’s extended arm while his body’s electrical system is being adversely affected, the muscles will weaken and the arm will not be able to resist the pressure. The circuits of the electri-cal system are overloaded or have short-circuited, causing a weakening of that system. However, if pressure is applied while his electrical system is being positively affected, the circuits remain strong, balanced and capable of fully functioning throughout the body. The muscles will remain strong, the person will easily resist and the arm will hold its position.
This electrical/muscular relationship is a natural part of the human system. It is not mystical or magical. Kinesiology is the established method for reading the body’s balance through the balance of the electrical system at any given moment.
When working in a co-creative partnership, nature answers your yes/no questions by projecting a positive energy or a negative energy—whichever is appropriate—into the electrical circuit that you have created by your fingers especially for the kinesiology testing. The "yes" or "no" that nature projects registers in this one electrical connection and not throughout your entire electrical system. The special connection created by your fingers allows you to use the kinesiology technique without adversely impacting your electrical system or your body’s balance. Only one circuit is being used, and this circuit is artificially created by you for the testing and is not a part of the normal function of the electrical system throughout your body. The answer you are able to discern through the testing is from nature. It is not an answer that has been concocted by you.
If you have ever experienced muscle testing, you probably participated in the above-described, two-person operation. You provided the extended arm, and the other person provided the pressure. Although efficient, this can sometimes be cumbersome when you want to test something on your own. Arm pumpers have the nasty habit of disappearing right when you need them most.

Kinesiology Self-Testing Steps
1. THE CIRCUIT FINGERS. If you are right-handed: Place your left hand palm up. Connect the tip of your left thumb with the tip of the left little finger (not your index finger). If you are Circuit Fingersleft-handed: Place your right hand palm up. Connect the tip of your right thumb with the tip of your right little finger. By connecting your thumb and little finger, you have closed an electrical circuit in your hand, and it is this circuit you will use for testing.
Before going on, look at the position you have just formed with your hand. If your thumb is touching the tip of your index or first finger, laugh at yourself for not being able to follow directions, and change the position to touch the tip of the thumb with the tip of the little or fourth finger. Most likely this will not feel at all comfortable to you. If you are feeling a weird sense of awkwardness, you’ve got the first step of the test position! In time, the hand and fingers will adjust to being put in this position and it will feel fine.
Circuit fingers can touch tip to tip, finger pad to finger pad, or thumb resting on top of the little finger’s nail. Women with long nails need not impale themselves.
2. THE TEST FINGERS. To test the circuit (the means by which you will apply pressure to Test Fingersyourself), place the thumb and index finger of your other hand inside the circle you have created by connecting your thumb and little finger. The thumb and index finger should be right under your thumb and your little finger, touching them. Don’t try to make a circle with your test fingers. They are just placed inside the circuit fingers that do form a circle. It will look as if the circuit fingers are resting on the test fingers.
3. POSITIVE RESPONSE. Keeping this position, ask yourself a yes/no question in which you already know the answer to be yes. ("Is my name _____?") Once you’ve asked the Positive Responsequestion, press your circuit fingers together, keeping the tip-to-tip position. Using the same amount of pressure, try to pull apart the circuit fingers with your test fingers. Press the lower thumb against the upper thumb, and the lower index finger against the upper little finger.
The action of your test fingers will look like scissors separating as you apply pressure to your circuit fingers. The motion of the test fingers is horizontal. Don’t try to pull your test fingers vertically up through your circuit fingers. This action sometimes works but it is not as reliable as the horizontal scissors action.
The circuit position described in step 1 corresponds to the position you take when you stick your arm out for the physician. The testing position in step 2 is in place of the physician or other convenient arm pumper. After you ask the yes/no question and you press your circuit fingers tip-to-tip, that is equal to the doctor saying, "Resist my pressure." Your circuit fingers now correspond to your outstretched, stiffened arm. Trying to pull apart those fingers with your testing fingers is equal to the doctor pressing down on your arm.
If the answer to the question is positive (if your name is what you think it is!), you will not be able to easily push apart the circuit fingers. The electrical circuit will hold, your muscles will maintain their strength, and your circuit fingers will not separate. You will feel the strength in that circuit.
IMPORTANT: Be sure the amount of pressure holding the circuit fingers together is equal to the amount of your testing fingers pressing against them. Also, don’t use a pumping action in your test fingers when applying pressure to your circuit fingers. Use an equal, steady and continuous pressure.
Play with this a bit. Ask a few more yes/no questions that have positive answers. Now, I know it is going to seem that if you already know the answer to be "yes," you are probably "throwing" the test. That’s reasonable, but for the time being, until you get a feeling for what the positive response feels like, you’re going to need to deliberately ask yourself questions with positive answers.
While asking questions, if you are having trouble sensing the strength of the circuit, apply a little more pressure. Or consider that you may be applying too much pressure and pull back some. You don’t have to break or strain your fingers for this; just use enough pressure to make them feel alive, connected and alert.
4. NEGATIVE RESPONSE. Once you have a clear sense of the positive response, ask yourself a question that has a negative answer. Again press your circuit fingers together and, using Negative Responseequal pressure, press against the circuit fingers with the test fingers. This time the electrical circuit will break and the circuit fingers will weaken and separate. Because the electrical circuit is broken, the muscles in the circuit fingers do not have the power to easily hold the fingers together. In a positive state the electrical circuit holds, and the muscles have the power to keep the two fingers together.
How much your circuit fingers separate depends on your personal style. Some people’s fingers separate a lot. Other’s barely separate at all. Mine separate about a quarter of an inch. Some people’s fingers won’t separate at all, but they’ll definitely feel the fingers weaken when pressure is applied during a "no" answer. Give yourself time and let your personal style develop naturally.
Also, if you are having a little trouble feeling anything, do your testing with your forearms resting in your lap. This way you won’t be using your muscles to hold up your arms while trying to test.
Play with negative questions a bit, and then return to positive questions. Get a good feeling for the strength between your circuit fingers when your electrical system is balanced and the weakness when it is short-circuited or imbalanced. You can even ask yourself (your own system) for a positive response and then, after testing, ask for a negative response. ("Give me a positive response." Test. "Give me a negative response." Test.) You will feel the positive strength and the negative weakness. In the beginning, you may feel only a slight difference between the two. With practice, that difference will become more pronounced. For now, it is just a matter of trusting what you have learned; and practicing.
Don’t forget the overall concept behind kinesiology. What enhances our body, mind and soul makes us strong. Together, our body, mind and soul create an environment that, when balanced, is strong and solid. If something enters that environment and challenges the balance, the environment is weakened. That strength or weakness first registers in the electrical system, and it can be discerned through the muscle-testing technique;kinesiology.



We were with Kris for almost 2 hrs.  It's pretty extensive.  She muscle tested with her fingers to see what Matt's body needed hence all of the supplements, and how much of them to take, and the raw diet of course as well.  I was just so intrigued with the whole process.  I really want to get into it!  I told Kris that she could be like a lie detector.  She laughed but she said there are boundaries.  She told me that once her daughter told her some huge fib, and Kris thought she was lying and so she muscle tested to see, and of course she was lying.  Kris said that she felt awful she said that it wasn't her job to judge that it was between Heavenly Father and her daughter.  I thought that was awesome!  Kris is really a special lady, I think she is really close to the spirit.  


Raw diet- When Matt heard that he had to be on a 100% raw diet he wasn't happy.  He likes his red meat.  Kris said he could do a protein powder not whey protein but plant protein powder.  She suggested doing lot's of smoothies, especially with Spinach in them.  Water, no milk.  She said do not hold back on anything have as much as you want.  I told Matt that I would do the 100% raw diet with him to help support and motivate him.  He seemed happy with that.  I just wanted to understand how he was feeling and going through it with him was a way I could.  Kris told us to call her in 5 days to see how things were going, to see what foods to incorporate back into his diet.  To call back in 1 week to see if he could lower any of his supplements or raise any of his supplements, or maybe even go off of any of his supplements.  Then to schedule a re scan in 6 weeks to see if his body was balanced.  So we left with all of Matt's supplements, and protein powder, feeling some hope.


When we got home my Mom let us borrow her Bosch for the blender attachment, since we didn't have one.  Green Smoothies became a big part of our lives!  So did Water, and Huge Salads with avocado, cucumbers, tomatoes, carrots, bell peppers, and salad dressing.  Matt was able to have salad dressing that helped tremendously...she did say it was better to have the oil kind, but simple ranch would be okay, just do the one with the least amount of sugar.  Matt couldn't have raw broccoli, or raw cauliflower either.  He could start having those lightly steamed after the 5th day. 



I did the 100% raw diet with Matt for 8 days.  We couldn't get a hold of Kris to see what Matt could start incorporating into his diet.  I would have actually loved to keep going raw, but it is so expensive!  I felt so great with all of those fruits and veggies!  I thought Matt would start feeling better.  He was, but not really.  Keep in mind though that this is not an overnight fix, it takes time for your body to adjust.  Matt was still really constipated, and having pains going from the back of his back up into his shoulders and around his chest and abdomen. 


I was so frustrated on June 15th when I woke up.  I cried to my Mom. She suggested maybe trying the Nikken Magnets and magnetic rollers.  I called and left a message to see at herbs for health for Kris to see if there was anything that Matt could take herbal wise.  Then went to my Mom's house to get the Nikken magnets.  Herbs for Health called back and got some info for me and said that they would call back and let us know what he could take.  I thought that going to the Temple would help in the mean time.  Matt wanted nothing to do with it, which I kind of got mad at.  I later apologized for being mean about it.  I could see his point who wants to go anywhere when you feel so crappy.  Anyways my Mom and even my friend/crossing partner said I should just go to the Temple by myself.  I was feeling pretty stressed out myself, I was starting to feel numb and pain in my left arm.  I didn't want to have a heart attack.  I told Matt that I was going to the Temple by myself.  He was okay to have the kids there with him so I could go.  





So I left to go to the Temple, and I just cried the whole way there.  I was so frustrated, and angry that this was going on.  I got to the Jordan River Temple to find out that it was closed until June 20th for cleaning purposes so I had to go to the Oquirrh Mountain Temple instead.  I was kind of worried that I would have to wait forever to do Temple work.  I called Matt to let him know what was going on, and to see if he was okay with me being gone longer.  He said it was okay, he also said that he hadn't heard back from Kris yet.  Matt is a good Man, I knew he was hurting, but he knew that this needed to be done.  So I went into the Temple expecting to wait for a long time.  I didn't have to wait I got right in, and right out,  It was so nice, and I felt better!  


I called Matt as soon as I got out, and he said that the receptionist from Herb's for health had called back and said that he could take something called Triple Relief.  He seemed down because he said Herb's for Health closes @ 5:30.  I told him that the one on 90th south and 1300 west probably wasn't closed.  I told him I was close to it, and that I would check and see.  He perked up when I said I would do that.  So I went and Lucky for us it wasn't closed.  I got Matt his Triple Relief and headed for home.


When I got home Matt looked awful.  He was hurting.  I made him a smoothie, and before I gave him the triple relief I wanted to know if he was heading to bed because they said to take it mid afternoon, and right before bed.  He said he was going to bed.  He took 2 triple relief and fell asleep.  The next morning he felt great!  We were so excited.  He came to watch the girls at gymnastics, it was good for him to get out of the house.  Everyone commented to him that is was nice to see him dressed and out!  We thought we were in the clear.
The next day Matt was going back to work.  He had called on Monday to tell his supervisor. that he would like to take it a day at a time to see how he felt, to see if he was ready to come to work.  Of course he missed Tuesday and Wednesday, and his supervisor had a fit about the whole thing.  Oh Gee whiz lady, we are so sorry to inconvenience you.  It drives me crazy!  Anyways Matt was able to go back to work on Thursday night June 16th.


I thought things were great until Matt came home Friday morning in absolute pain.  He said he felt fine up until Midnight and the pain kicked in and progressively got worse.  I hate to hear him grunt and moan.  I feel bad for him, and there is nothing I can do.  So he slept for a while and when he woke up he felt good again when he woke up.  That didn't last too long though he started to feel crappy.  I was worried that he would miss Madisynn's preschool graduation.  He didn't want to miss it so he came.  Matt had no choice either he had to go to work again.  We couldn't miss out on anymore income.  So he went. 
 I was hoping night 2 back to work would be a success. I thought my hopes were shattered when he came home and went into the kitchen and started to throw up. In my mind I thought oh no the nausea has come back.  After he was done I went out into the kitchen to see if he was ok, he said yep. Apparently he had the hiccups which made him throw up! Those were some Crazy strong hiccups if I do say so myself. He went right to sleep pain free, and is still sleeping. So what started out as a bad day yesterday ended in Night 2 a total SUCCESS! I thought A small light at the end of the tunnel was starting to show!


Saturday was the same process he felt fine when he woke up, and then started to feel crappy  by the end of the night.  He went to work again feeling crappy when he came home on Sunday which happened to be Father's day.  He didn't go to Church.  I was so frustrated and worried.  I had a breakdown in front of our friend Dan, and the Bishop.  I came home to Matt  feeling better, that only lasted for a few hrs.  Sunday night  and Monday was the worst days out of this whole nightmare that we have been going through.  Matt had ran out of his lortab and the triple relief wasn't working.  We couldn't get a hold of anyone to see if he could take the triple relief more often.  


Matt only slept like an hr. Sunday night.  I slept probably 3.  He was in the bathroom most of the time.  Back and forth from the living room to our bedroom.  He was moaning.  He couldn't get comfortable.  He said he was calling pioneer hospital to see if they would give him a refill on his lortab.  I was kind of upset because we were trying to get him off of pain medicine. He came back into the bedroom after to let me know what they said.  He told me that they would refill it just 1 more time, and that if he was still having pain after he was out of it that they wouldn't fill it anymore and that they wanted him to come back in to be checked.  I was scared and frustrated because I didn't want to go back to crappy pioneer hospital, but I didn't want to go anywhere else either.


I went and picked up matt's prescription thinking that it was going to be and in and out process.  Matt had called to see if the prescription had been called in and it was.  They hadn't even started filling it yet.  I was so mad, and trying not to show it.  I sat for 20 min and tried to hide my tears of fear, frustration, and anger.  I couldn't stop.  Sheesh.....


When I got the medicine I went home gave some to Matt, who told me my sister had called.  So I called her back, and just cried to her.  She told me not to be upset with Kris for her not getting back to us.  She said she is so busy during the day that sometimes she never gets a break.  She also said she is not a miracle worker.  I agreed.  She said to keep calling until we got her, and tell her what's going on and to see what Matt could start incorporating into his diet.  To ask her about the Triple relief.  I told my sister that I couldn't go on like this, that I couldn't do everything for everyone anymore. and that I was frustrated because I couldn't make Matt feel better.  It was out of my hands, and I was completely exhausted.  


I love my sister she gave me words of advice and encouragement that helped me to focus and be a bit stronger.  When I hung up with her, I went and talked to Matt, and then I called Herb's for Health to see if I could get a hold of Kris.  It was a prayer answered when Kris was the one who picked up.  I ended up crying during our conversation.  I let her know what had been going on the past few days, She said boy that Matthew is a tough one.  She said that it sounded like he really needed some emotional release therapy, and me too.  She said that sometimes the body can't heal because of emotional reasons.  She asked if we would like to schedule some emotional release therapy?  She said she could do it over the phone, but it was better for the first time to be in person.  So we scheduled an appointment for 3:30 that afternoon.  She told us that Matt could take the triple relief every hr. if he needed too.  It's what she took when she had her gallbladder removed.  She also told us that Matt could start incorporating oatmeal into his diet for awhile.


So I got stuff done that needed to be done, and we headed out to Pleasant Grove to do some emotional release therapy.  Matt went in by himself, while I waited with the girls outside.  We came prepared with there scooters, and a book for me so we wouldn't be board.  Madisynn ended up needing to go to the bathroom so we went inside.  while she was going I looked around the store, and then started asking the receptionist questions about different herbs.  A lot of my questions were about constipation, and nausea.  She suggested something called Digestzen.
It sounded like some amazing stuff this oil blend.  Here is a little bit about what Digestzen is:
You can use it for:
 Heartburn:

Add one drop of oil to rice or almond milk and drink





Bloating and cramps:





Flavor water with 5 drops and drink





Diarrhea and other digestive issues:





Apply topically on the abdomen or take internally by placing 1-2 drops in an empty capsule and swallowing.





Congestion:





Diffusing into the air with our Lotus Diffuser can help clear up mucus.





Food poisoning:





Add 6 drops to 8oz of water. Swish around in the mouth, and swallow. Place 1-2 drops in an empty capsule, and swallow.

Many essential oils have been recognized through research as powerful agents to help restore normal balance in the digestive system. DigestZen™ takes advantage of these well-established therapeutic compounds in a proprietary blend of pure essential oils. Ginger, peppermint, tarragon, fennel, caraway, coriander and anise each have specific attributes which add to the overall efficacy of this potent blend. When used internally, dōTERRA®'s DigestZen brings soothing digestive relief. For aromatic, topical, or dietary use.

Single oils contained in this blend:

Ginger
is warming, uplifting, and empowering. It can help influence emotions, physical energy, love and courage. Because it has a calming influence on the digestive system, it can help reduce feelings of nausea and motion sickness.
Peppermint
serves as an anti-inflammatory to the prostate and the nerves. It is soothing, cooling, and dilating to the system. It can also help with food poisoning, vomiting, diarrhea, constipation, flatulence, halitosis, colic, nausea, and motion sickness.
Tarragon
is useful in helping reduce anorexia, dyspepsia, flatulence, intestinal spasms, nervous and sluggish digestion, and genital urinary tract infection.
Fennel
can help support the digestive function by supporting the liver. It may also help balance the hormones.
Caraway
is antiparasitic and antispasmodic. It may also help with indigestion, gas, and colic.
Coriander
is antispasmodic and ha anti-inflammatory properties. It may also help with indigestion, flatulence, diarrhea, and other spasms of the digestive tract.
Anise
may help calm and strengthen the digestive system.
The receptionist told me that once she had eaten something and started to feel yucky, so she immediately  got the digestzen and did a few drops directly into her mouth and drank some water.  She said she felt better a few hrs. later.  She also said she rubs it on her daughters tummy all the time for constipation, and that it really helps.  She then said here go ahead and look at this book while you wait. It was a book for all of the herbal remedies  I took it outside and started to look at it, It was really cool, and interesting to see all the different types of herbal remedies!  Shortly after I started reading it Matt came out with Kris.  They had made a lot of progress.  They were in there for an hr.  She was very impressed with how well Matt had done!  Kris muscle tested to see when the emotional issues started happening which led to all of Matt's stomach problems like acid reflex.  I hope that makes sense.  Matt tried to explain how emotional release works.  It's really in depth and hard to explain.  He said it's something that you have to go through to understand how it works.  Which I am planning on doing in the near future. We went to my Sister's house to drop some things off, and to visit for awhile.  I told Matt that when he was ready to leave we would leave.  He was fine when we got there, so no big deal.  Then about a half hr. after being there he asks where his pain medicine is.  I tell him that it is in the car, he goes and gets some and came back in.  I ask him if he is wanting to go home.  He says that he is okay.  I knew he wasn't okay he was just trying to please me by staying so I could visit with my Sister.  Good man he is, and I could have taken advantage of that, but I didn't.  That is cruel!  I said we can go Matt, it really is okay.  You don't look good, and my sister said the same thing.  So I hugged my sister, goodbye and got in the car with the rest of the family, and we went home. The rest of the week was off and on with the pain. Friday we went to the Temple.  It was so nice to be able to get right in and do Temple work.  We were in and out within a half hr.  I had asked Matt the day before if he was ready to try the DigestZen.  He was, and so that was the plan after the Temple to go and get some of that, and get some more Kidney Activator, and Trigger immune because he was about to run out of them.  Then headed back home to pick up our kiddos.  So nice to have made a deal with a friend that would watch our kiddos so that we could go to the Temple, and we would watch their kiddos so they could go to the Temple.  Thanks, Scott and Terri!  I know we needed to go to the Temple, especially Matt.  Those blessings from going to the Temple are so wonderful didn't want to miss out on anymore of them! Also earlier in the week Matt had asked me if I could pick up another home enema kit.  Matt was still having issues with his bowels.  I think that he did 1 of the enemas the Tuesday before the Temple, and it helped.  Then he was back to square 1 of being constipated.  Sunday June 26th we went to our friend's baby blessing.  I wasn't sure Matt was going to make it, but he did.  By the end of it though he was hurting.  He wanted to go to the get together afterwards, but he wasn't fooling me.  He forgot his triple relief, and he was starting to grunt.  He would have been miserable, and he wouldn't really be able to eat anything they had.  Just the fruits and veggies and oatmeal if they had it!  Who serves oatmeal at Baby blessing luncheon?  Also hard to be around a huge group of people eating yummy things.  We gave our congrats, and went home. When we got home Matt did the last enema.  Since then he has been able to have regular bowel movement!  Hooray!  I don't think I have ever been so excited about poop before.  Not being able to poop was the trigger to Matt's pain.  Poor guy. I feel bad for anyone who has gone through severe constipation.  It's such a blessing to be able to have normal bowel movements, be grateful if you have them!  I never want to go through what Matt went through.....ever. The light at the end of the tunnel is bigger now. Matt hasn't had anymore problems since the 26th.  He has not taken anymore lortab, and he is still taking his triple relief sparingly.  The digestZen has been helping, and I know that all of the other supplements he has been taking are helping as well.  Matt is on a 75% raw diet which means he can now have brothy soups without the noodles.  Chicken is ok.  Chicken-sausage(from costco = yummy!) Blackbean burgers, chicken burgers, turkey burgers, Eggs, Tuna fish, or fish in general.  No red meat, and no flour.  Gluten free products. I'm so grateful that Matt is feeling better  the poor guy lost 20 lbs. from this surgery.  Not a fun way to lose it though.  He looks so much better, and is happier.  We just need to continue trying to reduce stress from our lives.  Is that even possible???? This week we start fresh, Matt will be able to help me in the yard again, and around the house again, and he will be able to walk his patrols at work again!  We didn't want to risk anything by having him overdue it and have him in more pain.  Since Mid May it really has been HELL! I'm so glad we made it through this. What have we learned from this?  I really don't know, but I do know that it definitely brought Matt and I closer together.  It's taught us how to be healthier, not that we were eating crappy.  We will continue having our green smoothies everyday, and eating tons of fruit and veggies.  We want to start eating more fish products as well.  Bountiful Baskets is our new best friend.  If you haven't ever ordered from them look into it for your produce.  Here is the website if you are interested: http://www.bountifulbaskets.org/ I'm taking Matt out for Sushi real soon, and my Mom and Rex even said at our family get together on July 4th that they would take Matt out for a nice big juicy stake when he can have it again.  I guess we'll see on that one!  Being Healthy is so important, and I'm glad I am and that my family will be too.  Thank you all for your love and support, your friendship, your prayers, your service in behalf of our family.  We love you so much!  Thank you for reading this extremely long post!  I hope you learned from it!  =)

Friday, June 24, 2011

Nelly Belly

We dog sat my crossing partner and close friend's little Chihuahua Nelly June 7th -13th. I didn't tell the girls that we were going to be dog sitting because I knew I would have to hear the endless questions of when Nelly was going to be coming to our house.  Is it today Mom, all day long would drive me crazy!  So we went to Gymnastics and while the girls were doing there thing I went with Allyson and put Nelly in the car.  After Gymnastics was done and when we got to the car was when I told them about dog sitting.  They were so excited!
A little bit about Nelly: very cute dog, but yippee, and growls all the time.  Nelly loves adults, but has a hard time with young kids....young kids Maddies age.  Allyson warned me that Nelly was like this and was worried for Maddie.  Her daughter Peyton who is maddies age gets growled and nipped at all of the time because she won't leave Nelly alone.  Allyson kept asking if I was sure I was up for this.  Honestly no I wasn't, but 1st she needed help, 2nd I really wanted to help her out, 3rd it would be a great learning experience for the girls, and 4th I was getting paid to do it!
Anyways on the way back home from Gymnastics Nelly growled pretty much the whole way.  I thought oh no this is going to be a long week.  When we got home we set up a place for Nelly to stay.  The girls instantly wanted to hold her and play with her.  Nelly didn't want any of that she growled at them.  I had to explain to them that they needed to be really careful with her.  They needed to gain her trust.  She ended up sitting on Matt's lap while I caught up on yard work.  She didn't want anything to do with the girls, which was hard for them.  When it was time to go to bed I let Nelly outside to do her business, and then put her in our laundry room in her little bed.  Then I went to bed, but was shortly woken up by her shrill whining.  I tried to ignore it, but gave up.  I let her come and sleep in our bed.  Matt had gone back to work, so it was just me.  Nelly instantly went under the covers and down by the back of my legs.  I tried to move her and she growled at me.  I got her anyways and put her up by my pillow, and she instantly tried to go back under the covers.  I was worried that I would roll on top of her, or that she would suffocate. She kept trying, and I gave finally gave in.  It wasn't the greatest nights sleep, and I thought boy this was going to be a long long long week.
Instructions for Nelly: indoor dog.  She is potty trained(bonus). She will start to whine at you when she needs to go do her business.   She eats when she is hungry.  She eats in her bed 3/4 cup dog food a day.  She can go for walks.  She can stay in her purse bag during the day if you want her too.  Put her in it when she is being naughty.  Okay to have her sleep in laundry room, but can sleep with you or your girls if you want, but she moves around a lot, so it's hard to sleep.
It really did turn into a good experience and Nelly actually let the girls hold her...well more kenzie than maddie.  Both girls got nipped at once, but they deserved it.  I'm sorry it happened, I warned them.  They have to learn somehow.  Nelly is not a hard dog at all, but she is like a baby.  She likes you to hold her, when she is not in her bag, or on her bed.  She is a drama queen....hence the growling.  She growls if you touch her wrong, pick her up, move her, she just growls.  Allyson said that's the way she was when they got her from her previous owners.  I don't know if it was there fault she was like this, or if it is a Chihuahua's trait.  I got her to sleep in the laundry room the 2nd night on.  I don't know for some reason I just didn't think to yell out be quiet Nelly and go lay down.  Probably cause I didn't want to wake my girls up.  My girls sleep pretty deep, and don't wake up to loud noises very often.  I had to yell it a few times, but she listened and shut up.  Very nice!
We did take her for a couple of walks, the girls had a blast with that one!  They each had turns holding the leash.  It was funny each time we took a walk we would pass a couple of huge dogs, and they would bark at us, and Nelly would bark and growl.  In my head I was thinking yea right Nelly in your dreams!  Those dogs could eat her whole.  Too funny!  Why do little tiny dogs think they are so tough?  Another funny thing she would do was when you asked her where Mommy or Daddy was or if she wanted to go for a walk she would start barking and running around trying to find them.  We all had a good time with that one!
The week was a success and Nelly really grew on me.  Not enough for me to run out and buy a dog though.  It was very therapeutic to pet her and hold her.  The girls were sad to see her go back home.  It's nice not to hear can I hold her now Mom? over and over again all day long. Oh and to also say give Nelly her space over and over as well.



Thursday, June 23, 2011

Preschool Graduate

 I can't believe my baby graduated from preschool.  She is just so tiny, but yet so big.  Madisynn graduated Friday June 17th. Her class was a tiny class, only 5 kids.  Madisynn loved going to school, and she has done remarkable.  I'm so proud of her!  The graduation program was short and sweet.  Madisynn had 2 lines to memorize for the program.  They were: Welcome to our Graduation Program.  We will now share with you the fun things we learned this year.  She did so good.  She has the sweetest little voice, that just melts your heart.  All of the kids did such a great job with their parts, and singing the songs.  So cute!



Maddie and her best friend in preschool Brianna 

 Left to right: Joplin, Makaydee, Jason, Brianna, and of course Maddie.

 Miss Hollie and Maddie

 The silly goof wouldn't turn her diploma around!

All done and over....on to new adventures in Kindergarten.  She is just too little to be going into Kindergarten.  She is so excited!  Congratulations on a year well done my little miss maddie moo!

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

The drama continues....

House of drama, it never ever ends.  So not even kidding you as soon as I hit publish post from my last post Matt took a turn for the worst.  I knew that he wasn't feeling top notch, but hey he just had surgery 4 days before so I thought it was normal.  He said he was having pains like before he had the gallbladder surgery, but worse, and he was nauseous, and dry heaving.  I called Dr. Rabaunavich's office to see what they wanted us to do.  The assistant said she had to call him because he wasn't in the office that day, and that she would call us back to let us know what we needed to do.  While I waited for her to call back I was panicking and trying to find someone to come give Matt a blessing.  I called our friend Dan to see if he was available, but he was at work.  I couldn't think of who to call, but he gave me some suggestions.  While on the phone with him the Dr. office called back.  They wanted us to come back to the ER and run some more tests on Matt.
We hurried and grabbed the stuff we needed, and headed off to the ER to see what was going on.  I was so panicked, Matt was dry heaving, and thankfully Maddie was calm.  I dropped Matt off at the door to the ER went and parked, and Maddie and I ran back to the ER.  Matt was filling out paper work when I got in.  I started trying to call people to see if they could come give Matt a blessing.  I was in tears, I had already called 3 people and couldn't get a hold of them, and one was out of state, so that didn't help.  Then finally I got a hold of brother Peck in our ward and he was happy to come and help.  He said he would find someone to help assist. Matt had finished his paperwork and was waiting, I didn't know what to do for him.  He hurt so bad tears were coming.  Matt has a pretty high pain tolerance so to have tears in his eyes I know it's pretty bad.  We waited in the waiting room for about 20 min.  I decided to call my friend Jacoy to see if she could come get Maddie for me.  I didn't know how long we would be in the ER for, and I didn't want her getting restless and seeing her daddy in pain.  Such a sweet heart Jacoy is, she totally said she could and would.  Thank goodness for good friends!
They finally get us into a room, and then it's another long wait to be seen.  Then Brother Peck shows up, and says that Brother Roberts is almost to the hospital as well.  Then the Dr. comes in and says what they want to do.  He says it's not uncommon for them to miss some of the gallstones after removing the gallbladder.  They wanted to check and see if that was the case.  Then he leaves and the nurse comes in to finally give Matt some Morphine, and Brother Roberts came in around the same time.  Pain meds and priesthood blessing Hallelujah!  The blessing assured Matt that he would have no further complications.  That was nice to hear.  It didn't mean that he wouldn't be pain free though.  After the blessing they took Matt to run some X-rays.
We were in the ER for about 4 hrs.  Craptastic.  Matt suffered, we would press the button when he would start to feel the pain again to have them come give more morphine.  It took them over and hr. to come and give it to him.  We called 2 or 3 times to see what was going on.  It was very frustrating!  The Dr. came back into the room and said that his liver may be inflamed or that he had and intestinal infection.  They wanted to run a CAT scan to see more.  So more waiting.  After the results from the CAT scan the nurse comes in and says there is absolutely nothing wrong with him.  He said Matt was constipated and to take milk of magnesia, and maybe try some home enemas.  He said that they would change his pain meds to something stronger.Then he said the Dr. would be in to talk with Matt.
So we waited for the Dr. to come in for about 10 min.  It makes me mad when he is standing right outside the room talking on his cell phone, when he can come in and just let us know his thoughts.  It turns out that I shouldn't have thought that, because the Doctor came in and said the same thing as the nurse and told Matt that he was a wimp.  We were both in total shock that he would say that.  We didn't know what to say.  What a jerk!  You never tell a patient that ever.  Doctors really need to put themselves in there patients shoes and think about how they are feeling.  He did say though that Matt could be having Muscle spasms.  I've heard those are pretty painful.  So they discharged us, and we went home, with Matt still hurting.  I dropped him off at home and went to pick up his pain meds.  Came back and went and picked up my girls from Jacoy's house.  Came back with Matt feeling a little better.
Matt was scheduled to get his staples removed 10 days after his surgery.  We wanted to go somewhere else to get them removed because we didn't want to see the jerky doctor again.  We were told we couldn't that we needed to followup with that surgeon.  Matt took those 10 days off from work, and tried to recuperate.  He was off and on for those 10 days well 9 days he went and got his staples out a day early.  He had to have a Dr. note saying that he was good to go back to work.
I thought everything was hunky dory when he left to go to work that night.  Matt didn't tell me that he was hurting.  I thought that he would take it easy at work and drive his patrols.  He thought he was okay to walk them.  It's almost 2 miles each patrol.  When he came home from work I knew it was bad.  He wasn't standing up straight.  He was nauseous and just hurting like before the surgery again.  He slept for a little while, but the pain was worse when he woke up.  He was out of pain meds.  I knew something needed to be done when I came into the hallway and Matt was kneeling on the floor butt in the air trying to relieve gas and just sobbing.   I didn't know what to do.  I just wrapped my arms around him, and sobbed with him.  I asked if he wanted me to say a prayer.  He did.  I asked if he wanted another priesthood blessing.  he did.  We didn't want to go back to the ER just to have them call Matt a wimp again.  So I got a hold of Brother Peck again and he was available to come and give Matt another blessing and he said he would find someone to assist him.  He brought Brother Adams with him.  The blessing was reassuring Matt still has a lot to do on this earth.  After the blessing we tried a cold pack on Matt's stomach, but it hurt too bad to keep it on.  I called Dr. Rabaunavich's office again to talk to the nurse to see what she suggested.  She asked the usual questions- does he have a fever? no, is he nauseous? Yes, are his incisions really red or hot to the touch?  Not hot to the touch and his incisions are red, but I can't tell if they are worse from yesterday. He did just get the staples removed. what kind of pain? stabbing or aching.  Is is like the pain before he had the surgery or after?  Before.  I told her that we had gone to the ER the week before for this same stuff, and that the Dr. said it might be muscle spasms.  She then said well their is nothing we can do, but call back in 24 hrs. if the pain is worse or isn't gone.  I then asked are you going to prescribe him some pain medication? he is all out.  Oh yeah of course... where do you have it filled?  I give her the info.  She says to check and see if it's called in in about an hr.
She really was no help at all.  So frustrating!  Matt still hurting rolled up into the fetal position on the couch moaning.  It was awful.  Then brother Peck calls me.  He said he felt inspired to tell me that maybe giving Matt some warm chicken broth would help. Then he suggested maybe going into a cold bath to bring down his body temperature, and then doing the cold pack for a little bit.  Then to finish off with the warm heat pad to relax may help.  I was open to any suggestions at this point.  I told Matt what brother Peck had told me, and so he went into a cold bath right away.  An hr. had passed so I called to see if the prescription was called in and filled yet.  Lucky me it had just barely been called in.  On the way to the store I was worried that Matt had been eating stuff that was aggravating him.  I called my Mom on the way to see if she had suggestions.  She looked online for me.  Tomatoes, and avocados, tuna, lentils were some of the top suggestions.  So I got those things along with more oatmeal since he was still pretty backed up.  Then got his prescription then went home.  My Mom has also suggested that I talk to my cousin Sherilyn she does homiopathic remedies.
The pain meds helped take the edge off, but not much.  I emailed my cousin the next day, she said she could make me some homiopathics and send them to me.  She suggested acupuncture, and some other things like digestive enzymes and warm pad.  She was very sweet to help out!  Thanks Sher!  So I started researching acupuncture where to go.  I didn't want to just go to anybody.  I was scared.  I asked around and a couple of people responded.  Thank you very much!  I thought maybe matt's Tens unit( vibrator thingy majig that helps sooths) might help.  Problem was my brother in law J had borrowed it from us, and they lived almost an hr. away.  I asked Matt if he would be okay for me to go and get it for him.  He hurt and didn't feel the greatest I don't think he would have cared either way.  Also because he was feeling nauseous I researched to see what I could do as an herbal remedy.  It brought me to Ginger tea.  So I was going to go get the tens unit and go to the store and buy some ginger root, and some digestive enzymes when my Mom called.  She said that she had bought me some digestive enzymes and she was on her way to the store and that she was going to come drop them off.  We got to talking and I mentioned the Ginger root and I wasn't sure if I could just buy it anywhere.  She said you could buy it at the grocery store.  She asked if I needed anything?  I said would you buy me some ginger root, so it's one less stop for me.  She quickly said yes and that she would drop it off while I was gone.  What a sweet MOM I have!
So after the girls were fed, we left to go to my sister's house.  While I was there we got into talking about herbal remedies.  My Sister has been through a lot.  She recommended doing a  LSA Pro HHC scan.  Both Kate, and my little brother Quinn have done this.  They have had success with doing it.  I thought why not. So I went home to Matt and asked him what he thought, and he agreed to try.  We called Herbs for Health the next day and made an appointment for the following day.   I was very impressed with Kris Ross!  She is very good at what she does.  My eyes have been opened to herbal remedies.  I will have to talk more about them in another post.  Lot's has been going on in the last month.  We take things day by day.  We are trying to get Matt back on track, and feeling healthy again.  So stay tuned!

Monday, May 30, 2011

Emergency Gallbladder Surgery

The past couple of weeks have been some rough ones.  My poor hubby has not been feeling so good.  It all started with him not being able to pretty much fart.  I know we have all had those really intense gas pains, and have felt so grateful to be able to relieve ourselves.  I felt so bad for him, each day got worse.  laxatives weren't working.  He couldn't get comfortable.  He went to work in pain, then come home and crash.  He would wake up feeling good, but then about a half hr. after he woke up he would start feeling crappy again.  This went on for a little over a week.  I would ask him if he wanted someone to give him a priesthood blessing, but he felt really embarrassed about it, and declined.  I told him he needed to go to the Doctor, but he wouldn't do that either.  Then he started not being able to poop either at least for a couple of days.  The poor guy couldn't even stand up straight he hurt so bad.

Thursday night May 26th I was at a meeting.  After the meeting I decided to bring it up with a couple of my friends that I was with.  One of them said that one of her Uncles went through something very similar, and ended up having to have surgery.  I started to panic inside as she was talking and I can't remember if she said Gallbladder or not.  So when I got home I made Matt promise me that he would go to the Doctor the next day.  I told him I would make the appointment for him.  
Friday when he woke up he felt even worse, and the pain was escalating.  He went to the Doctor appointment and of course he had to wait forever to be seen.  The Doctor's assistant came and asked his symptoms.  Then the doctor came in and told him that he needed to go to the ER and have x-rays done on his appendix and colon.  So Matt called me on his way home to let me know what was going on.  As soon as he got home we left to go to Pioneer Valley Hospital about 10 min. away.  I was so dreading this.  I thought that we would have to wait forever in the waiting room to be brought in to a room, or curtained area.  Thank goodness we only had to wait for about 5 min.  Doctor McBride had called in advance to let them know we were coming.  We got a room with a T.V. in it.  The T.V. was a lifesaver for the girls.  They were in the ER with us from about 3 till 7.  By the end they had about had it.  I just didn't want to leave until I knew what was going to happen with Matt.  The x-rays of course came back normal on the appendix and colon.   The next step was to do an ultra sound to see if it was gallstones.
I didn't know how long that was going to take to even do it, so I decided to call my Mom to have her come and get the kiddos.  I couldn't get a hold of her though, so I decided to just go and stop by her house.  She only lives 5 min. away from the hospital.  Maybe she didn't hear her phone.  That was the case, she was outside when I had called.  I tried her home phone on my way.  Such a blessing that she was able to take the girls for us.  Rex took my Mom and the girls to Burger King, so i could get back to Matt.  When I got back to Matt's room the surgeon was talking with him.  They had already done the ultra sound and turns out he had a gallbladder full of gallstones that he wasn't able to pass.  Their was no other option but to take the whole gallbladder out.  The surgeon told us it would be a very fast process, about 20 min.  He told us that surgery would be @ 5 in the morning, and to be prepared to have a very long boring night.  Long and boring was right, but very hard as well.
Matt was told he could eat and drink up till midnight.  Matt hadn't eaten anything since the night before, so I went home to get stuff for the girls to stay at my mom's, stuff for Matt and I.  Called someone to come and give Matt a priesthood blessing.  On my way to my Mom's I picked up a meal from Burger King for Matt.  At my Mom's I was starting to lose it, and she asked if I needed a blessing.  I did, so I asked Rex if he would give me one.  The blessing was a great comfort to me, i'm so grateful that Rex was there to be able to give me the blessing.
When I got to the Hospital they had admitted Matt into the hospital and into another room out of the ER.  He snarfed the food down.  After he ate the nurse came in and gave Matt some antibiotics through Matt's IV.  A little bit after doing this Matt started getting nauseous.  Then he started to dry heave.  Matt is not supposed to be able to throw up because he had surgery on his stomach about 5 years ago for his acid reflux.  So it's a painful experience for him when he feels like he is going to throw up.  Over the last 5 years though he has started to have vomit come out not a lot though.  So when he started dry heaving, I started to tear up.  I felt so bad for him already being in such pain, but to have to add this pain to it as well.  After he was done we let the nurse know that he had thrown up, and that he still felt nauseous.  She got some nausea medicine for him.  That helped.  Matt ended up having to have 3 rounds of the antibiotics and each time he got nauseous, which made me nauseous and start gagging.
It was a long uncomfortable boring night.  Matt didn't feel like talking, I was too tired to read, and too tired to watch the t.v.  I don't think that either of us slept, but 40 min. that whole night.  5:00 rolled around and nobody came into the room to take vitals or get Matt for surgery.  By 5:20 I decided to go out and see what was going on.  Turns out that the surgeon and the team don't even start until 6 a.m.  The nurses asked me if he meant 5 p.m.  I was like he better not have.  So  there was nothing to do but wait.
They finally came in to prep Matt for surgery at 7:15 or so.  When the anesthesiologist came to take him into the surgery room I wanted to make sure of how long surgery would be. I told him that the Dr. said it would take 20 min.  His reply was oh it could take 20 min. for Matt to go under, and then do surgery, and then wake up.  So it would be about an hr and a half tops.  I thought nice I could go run an errand and not have to have my mom or anyone else do it for me.  I had paid for a bountiful basket for a food co-opp and it was at the mall not to far from the hospital.  I thought I would have plenty of time to pick it up drop it off at home, shower, and be back before he woke up.
This was not the case.  As I was putting the food basket into my car, Matt's Mom called the cell phone.  She said she had called the hospital to see how Matt was doing.  I guess apparently the Doctor talked to her, but he wouldn't give her any information since she wasn't at the hospital.  She said he had gone out into the waiting room to talk to me and I wasn't there.  The surgery did take 20 min.  Crazy!  I was really worried that something had gone wrong.  You see when Matt had his stomach surgery they messed up on him, and he had a 2 week stay in the hospital.  So I hurried back to the hospital.  When I walked through the door the doctor was in the waiting room talking with another doctor.  He recognized me right away, and said that Matt's surgery had gone well, and that I could go up to his room and wait for them to bring him up.  So I did, and waited for about a half hr.
When they brought Matt up he looked like he hurt.  Of course he hurt they he has 4 1 inch incisions held shut with a bunch of staples.  I told the nurse what the anesthesiologist had told me on the time frame.  She laughed and said that he must have never worked with this surgeon.  Apparently the surgeon has removed so many gallbladders that he just goes right in and does it.  I guess he doesn't want the patient to be under anesthesia for long periods of time.  We had to stay in the hospital for a couple of hrs, to make sure he was able to go to the bathroom, and eat, and monitor his vitals.  I'm so glad that we didn't have to stay overnight.  I'm so glad that we live a little over 10 min. away from the hospital.  Poor Matt got nauseous on the way home, and started to dry heave.  Holy crap painful!  I started to get scared when he started dry heaving. All I could think about was hurry up cars and get out of my way.  When we got home I hurried and unlocked the front door so Matt could get inside.  He went and laid down, and thank goodness the dry heaves stopped.  I think he got car sick.
While he slept I went and filled his prescriptions, went back to the hospital because we forgot his breathing treatment devise, and then went to my mom's to pick up the girls.  The girls were waiting for my mom to get ready so they could go to the park.  They didn't want to come home.  Fine with me, my Mom kept them for a few hrs. longer.  She made us a couple loafs of bread, and said she would bring dinner with her when she dropped the girls off.  When I got home Matt was doing alright.  I was worried about him, and didn't want to be gone longer than I had to be.  It was nice to be able to shower and clean up, and then have a nap.
My Mom brought the girls back around dinner time, with spaghetti.  Funny thing though the 2nd counselor in the bishopric came with his kiddos to bring us dinner as well!  We were so surprised.  He came in for a few minutes to see how Matt was doing.  He also just happens to be the counselor over the primary, and he told me the best news.  That I was being released from the primary!  Instant relief that I no longer had that responsibility of being the 1st counselor.  He did say to not get to comfortable which scared me.  I'm going to go into hiding!  It will be nice to have a little break. =)
So it has been 4 days since Matt had his surgery.  He is doing alright.  We take it hr. by hr.  He is good if he is lying down.  He does get up and move around though.  We are hoping that he will be able to go back to work soon.  He doesn't have any sick leave, or vacation time, so it really puts us in a bind.  Matt's supervisor had her gallbladder out awhile ago and she said she was out for 3 weeks.  Matt's brother had his out a while ago as well, and he was in the same predicament as Matt.  he had to go back almost a week after his surgery.    He wished that he could take at least a couple of more weeks off.  We are playing it by ear.  Matt is scheduled to go in on June 7th to get his staples removed.
So the silly guy decided to watch a gallbladder surgery on the internet yesterday.  Big mistake!  He said it was so gross that it made him want to throw up.  I said well if it made you want to, I know that I would have thrown up, and then passed out, or vice versa!  I'm so grateful for Matt.  He has such a high pain tolerance, it amazes me.    I'm so grateful for the friends that have brought us dinner.  I'm so thankful for the prayers and thoughts uttered in our behalf.  It's nice to know that people care.  Thank you all so much, and I love you dearly.  So if you are experiencing intolerable gas pains and bloating and nothing works for you, go to the doctor right away.  You may be experiencing gallstones.  Believe me watching Matt suffer for a week and a half was horrible and you don't want to suffer like that.